Wich Software are you using?

Dear Community,

I'm into photography since more than 15 years and always used Lightroom to import, adjust, and manage my photos.

Somehow I dislike the abo model and am looking for alternatives. Yes, I know there is Darktable, RawTherapie etc, but I need something to import my LR catalogue in a way that the images look more or less the sams (xmp defines e.g. shadow increase - but then the new software should also render it execatly as in LR).

Any suggestions?