How to feel comfortable in and love what you wear, whilst also retaining sustainable values?

I’ve been thinking a lot about sustainability vs changing personal style, and I feel a bit stuck between the two.

On one hand, I completely understand that our tastes change over time.

On the other hand, I was raised to *never* get rid of things...

Now when I think about sustainable fashion, I feel really conflicted. Part of me believes clothes should be worn until they’re completely worn out. Another part of me recognises that I’ve changed, and forcing myself to wear things I no longer feel good in doesn’t seem healthy either.

So I’m curious how others approach this:

• How do you balance evolving style with sustainability? (what I like in certain styles of clothing can change every couple of years.)

• What do you do with clothes you no longer feel like 'you' in, even if they’re still in good condition?

• Are there systems (swaps, resale, etc.) that actually work well in practice?

I really want to be more mindful and less wasteful, but I also want to feel comfortable and like myself in what I wear. Would love to hear how others navigate that balance.

I also don't have a toooon of disposable income right now, so cheaper options would be amazing. (if it is made ethically, of course, and if the quality is up to scratch)