How do I make my BLACK ASF eyebrows lighter?

I’ve tried soooooo manyyyyy times to make them lighter and it’s just never worked. I’m feeling so frustrated and upset because I just don’t like the eyebrows that I have and I don’t know how to make them lighter. Nothing has ever worked. Just now, i bleached them and they became orange/brown and when I used light brown tint, they became BLACK 💀 again. Other times, I used Jolene crème bleach, didn’t work. One time it did… only after AN HOUR and even then it became a patchy uneven orange. Just last week, I went to some hair and beauty place, they tried twice, didn’t work. I was so upset I legit started crying OVER EYEBROWS which is so embarrassing 💀💀💀The lady said I reminded her of her daughter and said I didn’t have to pay and just let me go. I just don’t understand what’s up with my flipping eyebrows? Like what the flip, what am I doing wrong?

Anyways that’s the story of my black ass eyebrows…. Can someone tell me what to do to make them lighter, PLEASE

I know im being dramatic but I’m actually so close to just clawing my entire face off. I don’t want to out ever again with these fkass BLACK eyebrows. HELP PLEASEEE. Is hair dye the next option?